𝑰𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒚 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒍𝒆, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒚 𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒏!
If you've read, "Dismantled Hearts," there's one character that stood out when it came to enjoying the single life. This woman was living her best life and building her empire. Her friends questioned why she was single; she was beautiful, had a great career, financially secure and was a whole vibe when it came to having fun and being the life of the party. I thought it was worthwhile having this character in the book because this is the reality for some women - you know being questioned why you're single as if you're missing out on life by not having a man in your existence.
For myself, the single life has been a constant joy and not a burden. I never villainized it. During this season, I built my virtual business and as a result now work as a full time-entrepreneur with the freedom to work when, where and how I want. No distractions, just straight grinding. I took the time out to publish my first novel and now working towards my dream of having it become a limited series. Again, just straight grinding. I eventually stepped out of grind mode and learned that all work and no play was not how I wanted to spend my life and stepped up my travel goals both in and out the country, taking time to relax and enjoy life more.
During this season, I also spend time with family, whether that's outings with my young adult son, hanging out with my young nephew at the movies, weekend trips with my sister, concerts with my cousins or brunch with my girls. Also, day trips by myself to the spa, bookstores, coffee shops and beach. If I'm not home chilling by myself, which I don't mind at all, I'm out spending time with the people I love and that's including myself!
I live a fulfilled life and getting as much as I can from this season. My hope is that more people view singleness as a gift and not a curse. Having companionship is a natural desire but having it from just anyone will leave you empty and shallow inside. There's nothing worse than getting yourself caught up in a relationship with someone you see no future with. It's a complete waste of time. Trust me, I've been there!
God wants us to enjoy every season he places us in, whether we agree with the timing or not. Instead of complaining or dreading the months, year or even years, change your approach and use this time to work on yourself. If you're unfulfilled as a single, it won't change once you're with your person. The constant feeling of loneliness will not go away. Embrace this season working in your purpose but also work on your internal being and do the self-work; this will bring you the joy and peace you may be seeking.
Being happy starts way before you get into a relationship. It starts with you. There's a lesson in every chapter, so don't miss out on what God is trying to show you while in your single season!
Until next time!
- Authoress J. Henry, XOXO
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